The Oscar-winning actress Reveals Why She Didn't Use an Intimacy Coordinator on New Film Her Upcoming Movie

Jennifer Lawrence has joined the growing list of performers who voice skepticism about the necessity of intimacy coordinators, explaining she opted against their services while working on her latest project Die My Love.

Examining the Role of On-Set Intimacy Professionals

Intimacy coordinators emerged following the #MeToo movement to ensure the security and ease of performers during scenes involving nudity and intimate moments. Yet, numerous prominent performers including Jennifer Aniston and Sean Bean have expressed reservations about their presence, with some claiming they disrupt artistic process.

Lawrence's Personal Experience

In conversation on the popular culture podcast, while discussing her new film where she plays a character experiencing postpartum disturbance, the actress commented: "We did not have such a professional, or maybe we had the option but didn't make use of their services... I felt completely safe with Rob."

She elaborated: "He is completely professional and deeply devoted to Suki Waterhouse. What we discussed mostly revolved around our children and relationships. There was never awkward tension or questions about professional limits."

"If there was even a hint of discomfort, I definitely would have insisted on an intimacy coordinator. Many male actors take offense if you aren't interested in their attention, and subsequently the negative treatment starts. He was not like that."

Professional Validation and Continuing Discussion

Earlier this week, entertainment database IMDb formally acknowledged on-set intimacy professionals as a separate category, alongside multiple additional crew positions including dance direction, craft services, and puppetry. Before this, they were grouped under "additional crew" rather than having their own designation.

Despite this recognition, these professionals still encounter media scrutiny suggesting they might not be required standards, with high-profile performers declining their involvement. Jennifer's viewpoint echoes that of Jennifer Aniston, who previously shared she refused intimacy coordination while filming alongside Jon Hamm on The Morning Show.

Aniston's Experience

"Jon was extremely respectful – I mean each action, every cut, 'Are you OK?" she recalled. "The scenes were also very choreographed. That's the advantage of working with skilled editors, appropriate music. So, minimal preparation is needed."

Aniston continued, "Production suggested, 'Having someone check if you're comfortable,' and I thought, 'Please, this is sufficiently uncomfortable!' We're experienced professionals – we can handle this. And we had Mimi present."

Other Examples and Industry Reaction

Despite featuring numerous scenes of intimate moments and frequent nudity, the award-winning film – Sean Baker's acclaimed film about a adult entertainer and a wealthy heir – filmed without an intimacy coordinator.

The film's star explained she and fellow actor Mark Eydelshteyn "decided it would be best to maintain privacy."

"The role I play is a sex worker, and I had studied the director's work and recognized his commitment to authenticity. I was mentally prepared for it. As an actress, I treated it as part of my job."

Her comments provoked strong reactions from industry professionals, similar to the response to Gwyneth Paltrow's recent comments, who earlier this year revealed that working on her forthcoming project her latest film marked her first encounter with the emerging role, which she "was unaware of previously."

Paltrow's Perspective

When asked about comfort level with a specific move alongside co-star her younger counterpart, the actress responded: "I belong to the era where you get naked, you assume position, the filming begins."

Paltrow added that she and Chalamet then told the coordinator: "We believe we're good. You can step back.' I can't speak to how it is for newer performers, but... if someone is directing, '{OK, then he's going to place his hand here,' I would feel, as an artist, extremely restricted by that."

Professional Reaction

After these statements, industry executive Caroline Hollick described them as "irresponsible" and highlighted that most of those speaking against these professionals possess sufficient fame to maintain personal authority and security on production locations.

"Occasionally an actor shares opinions about whether they value intimacy coordinators or not," said Hollick. "The actress mentioned she grew up in a period when people in Hollywood 'removed clothing and proceeded professionally'. As a established actress in Hollywood performing alongside a man much younger than her, although likely he is comfortable, I considered it quite an irresponsible statement."

Actor's Viewpoint

The veteran actor, meanwhile, expressed that he feels the primary responsibility during intimate sequences falls on the male actor, rather than a external professional.

"In my experience, you assume duty as the man to make certain the woman is comfortable, you discuss it completely," he said. "You communicate, '{OK, I'm going to touch you here if that's agreeable'. It's extremely careful but seems like it's occurring organically, which is ideally what authentic performance appears as."

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